| Author: Tracy Lambert |
Babies On A Budget
By Mrs. Tracy Lambert
Expectant moms, do not have to look far to see lists compiled by "experts" sharing all the gizmos and gadgets that are "must-have's" for expectant families. As a new parent, I felt like I needed to have each of these items to be prepared for my new arrival.
Now, looking back, I realize that the vast majority of these things are not really needed at all, in fact, my first child never used half of what we had purchased thinking that we would need.
So, this is my "expert" list for you. In times of plenty and in want, these are the things that we really used...even some of these are not "must haves", but rather just convenient.
Diapers
There are many diapering options for new moms on the market.
Whether you choose disposable or cloth, diapering is a personal decision that you need to make for your family.
Disposable diapers are readily available. The best way to learn which diapers will work best is to ask other mothers that have babies themselves. Often, the most expensive brands are not the best option.
We used disposables with the first seven....I wish I could reclaim the money that we spent diapering the first seven!! Cloth diapers are not nearly as much trouble as I originally thought and much cheaper than disposables.
Diaper Hamper
This is a MUST for cloth diapering moms. Make sure you look over the plastic storage area of your local department store before you opt for an expensive hamper.
We have a great hamper I purchased there for $4.00! If you are not cloth diapering, please let me encourage you to NOT buy some of the expensive diaper disposal systems. Empty bread bags or grocery bags do the same job and just as well.
Diaper Wipes
I have heard of people making their own, but preferring to not throw out anything, we are using baby wash cloths. You could just use soft plain wash cloths and be just fine.
Car Seat
This is a requirement of each state, and a necessity for your baby's safety. I, personally, prefer the models with a base and a detachable seat that I can use to carry baby.
When choosing a seat, remember to look for dark fabrics. You would not believe how quickly these items show dirt, wear and tear.
Crib & Mattress
You will need a crib and mattress with bedding. Bumper pads are optional, and are no longer recommended for use in infant cribs.
My babies have all slept in a co-sleeper or cradle by my bed for the first few months. I wanted my babies to be close because I was breastfeeding during the night.
Whatever you use, be sure that it meets current safety guidelines.
Bottles
If you are not breastfeeding, you will of course, need bottles. Please do not think that you have to buy a certain type or brand. Though many moms have their own preference, bottles do not have to be expensive.
Breastfeeding is always the preferred feeding option...not only because it's better for your baby, it is also more convenient and definitely more affordable!
Pacifier
Our hospital supplied one for us. Pacifiers are great for calming and comforting a baby during a church service or in between feeding times.
If you are breastfeeding, you might want to re-consider the use of pacifiers. The "experts" go back and forth on the use of pacifiers and their connection to successful breastfeeding but from experience, my babies who took a pacifier nursed less and therefore, I had less milk! This is something to think about.
Stroller
Though not a necessity, it is definitely nice to have, especially if you are going to be out with your baby very much within the first couple of years. Again, you will want to choose dark fabrics.
Carrier
These come in so many different styles that I hate to comment on a particular one...many people prefer slings but there are variety of different infant carriers. Shop around and see what will best fit your family.
We, personally do not have one. Instead, when we are out with our babies, I either hold them or carry them in their car seat.
With that said, moms who do have slings usually love them!
Diaper Bag
For this baby, I have used a standard tote bag for a diaper bag. Especially, if you are breastfeeding, and not going to have bottles in your diaper bag that need a way to stay upright, there really is no reason to spend the extra money on a diaper bag.
Clothing
Babies generally need a lot less clothing that we think, and much of it can be purchased in really good condition from second hand sources.
Some items you may want to think about are onesies, a couple of nicer outfits, lots of socks...(these tiny things get lost so easily in the laundry), and gowns (our choice because babies can wear them much longer than sleepers.
Other Supplies
Grooming supplies are pretty much a necessity. Items like baby shampoo, baby bath, a soft hair brush, bulb syringe and nail clippers will be needed. You may want to check with your hospital prior to making these purchases, many supply them to newborns to take home.
A couple of additional items that you will use are burp cloths, and a few receiving blankets. A playpen or swing will give baby a comfortable place to play, but I have also found that a rectangular laundry basket lined with a blanket and filled with a few favorite toys works just as well when babies are old enough to sit up by themselves and play.
Preparing for a new arrival does not have to cost a fortune. New things are exciting and add to the anticipation of an expected birth, but many are not necessary.
Babies only real needs are to be warm, fed and loved.
Providing for these needs, even in the most humble means, will make for a happy baby! |
Author Bio:
Tracy Lambert is married to Paul and homeschooling mom to eight children. She currently resides in Alabama where she manages family businesses including her website, www.LinesFromTheVine.com . Visit Lines From The Vine today for more information on parenting on a budget! |
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